Pathetic

I believe one of the most pathetic things a person can do is get into a relationship and push their friends or even family away. I know a bundle of friends that have gotten missing ever sense they got into a relationship. I'm not being jealous in any way shape or form i'm being real. I think thats some bitch shit in my eyes. I understand that your trying to get your relationship to work and everything but when you cut the rest of the world off that makes you look like your afraid that your other half will leave you if your not with them every moment of your life. If thats the case then you two should not be together. Why are people so scared to be alone these days??? I'm not going to front i used to be that way back in my freshmen and sophomore year of high school but i came to a realization. For one your probably not going to marry the person your involved with right now. For a second supporting point what about if you two decide to split up for whatever reason, who will you have to hold you down when you need a shoulder to cry on or when you just want to get out and chilled night? i honestly doubt that the same people will still be there after the smoke clears and if they are then their a damn fool. I mean sure their not going to fully ignore you but the friendship will be damaged. So all i'm saying is if your in a relationship or will be in one in the near future do not shun your loved ones off because you never know when you'll need em